We now have a gorgeous dd who is now 9mths old. I am now 10 days late for my 3rd cycle since they recommenced. My TCM told me I was really highly fertile and that if we wanted to try for no. 2 now would be a good time. Yes it would be great, but its been such a tough year. Dealing with DD has been a breeze, but our living arrnagements caring for my FIL have me almost at my wits end. He is unappreciative and does little to be involved, and we live in a suburb where we dont fit in. I dont even feel comfortable enough to walk DD around the block. Its just been so emotionally draining, with very little support. I dont know if I should be excited at the possibility or crying in the corner, its been really tough on 1 wage & i need to be back working if we're ever going to move from here.

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Thanks