thanks people...
they do great things with her, they live on 5 acres so she is outdoors ALOT, unless its too cold or wet... they also take her places, to the park, to the lake (which admittedly i've never even been to), and she watches her favorite dvd's, goes to the shops etc, so it is fairly varied... she probably doesn't get to play on her own enough(!!!)... im actually thinking of suggesting mum take her to a playgroup - do they have grandma's taking kids to playgroup do you think?
i've got a good playgroup in our town, its just - and i guess i'm being selfish here - i often don't feel like going because i want a day at home (after being at work), or have the housework to do, or need to go shopping, or WANT to head out somewhere else... it could be just because i've been working 5 days.. in a week or so i will go back to 3 days and will have more free time, so i guess will be more willing to go. i feel quite bad as all the other mum's in my mum's group seem to go every week to playgroup AND mothers group, i guess they are SAHM though so have alot more free time.