Maybe ring and see where you are on the list? Perhaps keep in touch to see if things change. We were in the same boat but DD got in recently on a 3rd round offer - clearly applications are serious stuff around here. It is only for 4 hours a week but I too didn't want her to miss out for a variety of reasons. Apparently they often have people drop out as the kids are not quite ready for it so hopefully there is a chance you get a spot down the track. x
I am in Victoria, and if they would actually call me back I might be able to find out where we are on the list. THey said it was done by age, so obviously there are a lot of kids older than DS, who is a Sept bub.
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