Lucy the law is all children MUST be in regular school by their 6th birthday. Kameron defintely wasn't in school when he turned 5 as he was kept back in Kindy for 18mths.

I am assuming here that Kindy means our prep/reception.

From having a child that was extremely shy and didn't say boo to others, i have really noticed a huge change in him since he has started school. So in my opinion I would be saying send her, but I did also get offered to keep Kameron back in Kindy (preschool for you) for 6 months, which I accepted.

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