WDYT - FDC lady has baby same age as mine?

[Lulu]

I'm not sure you CAN have 2 babies at once?? I'm probably totally wrong, maybe ring the council for the "rules"?

[mrsmac]

When DS started FDC at 8 months the rule was only 1 child under 1. I would definitely NOT leave your bub with her as 2 bubs that young would be too much with older children as well.
(My FDC lady has a DD the same age as mine but thats 16!! LOL)

[blizz]

I am planning to become a FDC when I start work after the birth of my baby and the rules as they have been explained to me are that you can only have one child under 12mths in care at a time and as this will be my little one I am looking at only taking toddler and older as I also have a two year old I think that would work best for me IYKWIM.
I am not sure of the normal ratio but I have been told I can apply for an extended licence which will allow me to have 7 children in total and My children will also come out of that ratio so my 2 and 5 clients.
I know it sounds a lot to parents but I have been working in long day care for 12 years and my ratio has been 1-10 for 3 years and over.I currently work in a room where we have 30 children daily (with 3 carers) I am looking forward to being able to do many of the activities I just don't get a chance to do now.
Good luck with your search for care and I too would be dubious about 2 babies in one family day care placement.

[AnyDream]

Well all the FDC ladies I've known have always opted to only have one baby at a time...However it varies from state to state so I'm not 100% sure what the limits are here. I'm going to ring the Office in the morning and explain that regardless of what their ratios are I just don't think it's a good idea so they can find me someone else.

I agree, 2 the same age when they are toddlers is completely different, but not when they are babies!

[Roryrory]

Look my mum did FDC so I am a big advocate of it, but that said I would be reluctant to leave my child with someone who had a baby of the same age. That said, if I was looking after a GF's child just for the day I would probably go to her baby first IYKWIM?

[AnyDream]

That said, if I was looking after a GF's child just for the day I would probably go to her baby first IYKWIM?

Well I thought about that because that would be my inclination and it's certainly the case when we have visiting children staying with us - it's going that extra step because their parents aren't there. However we all know our own children have the capacity to exhaust us in a way that other ppl's children do not, and two children under the age of 12 mths is going to be a handful any way you look at it.

[paradise lost]

I'm not sure about Aus but here in the UK the FDC's children don't "count" so you could have 2 under 12 months if one was your own.

I think it depends on the person really. I know women who are quite capable of ignoring children however old or distressed they are, and a woman who is bringing up non-identical triplets ON HER OWN without ever having to ignore any of them. It just depends on her personality. I would FDC 2 under 12 months, but i am a confident and frequent baby-wearer so i wouldn't feel i was having to "go" to them. If one got upset i'd stick them in the wrap for a bit and if both got upset i'd stick one on each hip/one front, one back until they'd calmed down.

If you're not comfy with the idea then don't interview her, but if you're just concerned it might be worth talking to her about how SHE deals with it, and get a feel for her. My mum did FDC when i was a kid and had 4 of us at one time, me (26 mos), little girl#1 (16mos), little girl#2 (6mos) and baby girl (6 weeks). She'd had 3 boys in 3 years when she was younger and she coped fine with us all. She had constant "activities" on the go for us older 2, and kept the littly in a wrap most of the time. At nappy time she changed us all from smallest to biggest at the same time. There was a waiting list for her care as parents were always so impressed come hometime at their kids lined up, relatively clean, well-fed, and with a bunch of pasta pictures, finger paintings, autumn leaf collages etc. for the fridge.

Really, if people have twins and triplets it is obviously possible to care for more than one at the same time, you just need to do what YOU feel comfortable with as regards her care and your kid.

Bx