would this concern u about a kindy?

[LimeSlice]

I would be concerned about them telling him he was disgusting for wetting his pants...

The other stuff...probably not - the teacher stepped in promptly when he was having issues not much else they can do - boys are boys and toddlers hit lol I have this problem with Charlotte and she is only 18 months

But I would probably make a point of discussing how they approach the wetting situation with the co-ordinator, see what her response is and keep an eye on it.
Most of all talk to Tariq and make sure he understands that he is not disgusting and that if he does have an accident he needs to let his teachers know so they can help him.

Good luck!

[2CheekyMonkeys]

yep, i would be concernced about the disgusting remark. if the rough behaviour is ignored i would be concerned with that too.

[Rouge]

Thats wrong. I would be complaining and not sending him to that kinder.

[Fleur]

The digusting comment would bother me. Besides that though, there is the fact that you don't feel overly comfortable with that kindy... that is kind of a worry in itself, kwim?
How does DS feel about that kindy? I'm not sure from your post, it might be his first day in which case it's probably too early to tell... but if starts dragging his feet and not wanting to go that would be another sign things aren't all that good.
It is a tough dilemma. Good luck.

[guccibabe]

yeah i have to agree its really the disgusting comment thats upsetting me and obviously DS.
Although saying that he seems happy to go still... maybe ill give it a another week and maybe chat to the director? i just dont want to make things worse by speaking up iykwim.. but cant let it go

[Ginger]

i would not be happy at all with the disgusting comment.
i've probably missed something, but why did you change him to this kindy? what was the problem with the old one?

[guccibabe]

I could not hold it in any longer and called and spoke with the director. she said she is happy to speak with teacher, but said i should bring it up friday which is his next day and she said she will follow up. but agrees she should not say that and its perfectly normal for kiddies his age to have accidents.. wonder whether teacher will fess up but i guess i will have better idea if i want to keep him there by her reaction anyway.
i moved him because he was not as happy with old kindy since he has had 3 new teachers in the past 4 months, so was feeling unsettled! before that i loved it and so did he.. im still there as he has been happy to go since the staff have been constant for the past several weeks but wanted to try another one and see which he prefers.