so heres an update from today:

We went through her medical history, symptoms, behaviour etc and the chiro had a little feel (hes been lloyds since the same age) and said he doesnt want to treat her, her neck and back are too bad for even him to deal with hes referred us to people who deal with kids a place called kirokids because her hip dysplacia was kind of ignored by doctors and passed from one dr to the other when she was a baby it never got properly seen to which has resulted in her tail bone being twisted causing her neck and back to be out of place too. He said its going to be a very long, hard, painful, expensive road but it needs seeing to now or it will cause many more problems.
My poor baby must be in so much pain