I call or at least have to text the Man. Well, when I am in a real poo mood, I'm just having a guess that in a crises it could be the same.

Regardless, I think it does help to hear "it will be okay", no matter who from. Even yourself. You just need that bit of reassurance, sometimes just to keep it together. And it is important to have *someone* that you can call, even if it is just for over the phone, moral support.