Just wondering if you looked into lavender essential oil at all? My DS had a very mild case of eczma when he was little, and what cleared it up was the QV cream mixed with a few drops of the essential oil. It has anti inflamatory and antibacterial properties among others. I use the oil for a wide variety of things. I'm sorry your poor little poppet has to go through all the pain, I hope that you'll find something that works for her soon. Many hugs xoxox