We are having a boy, and have not even considered having him c'd. My hubby is, but he was of the opinion that it wasn't done anymore. Unless there was a medical reason for it, I wouldn't. I see it as a cosmetic thing, and the idea of doing it with no anesthetic is mortifying! My baby boy can keep all his bits, as nature intended! Good luck with your decision, I don't think it is an easy one.