My Dh n I had the same dicussions and researched when we were preg with my bub (we didn't know we were having a girl!).... We decided to have it done if we had a boy as my DH is circumcised. I don't want my little boy to wondering why he looks different to daddy in the shower. Had my DH not been done then its not something I would have bothered with. In saying all of that I think it is cruel getting it done to old fashioned way .... I believe it should be done by the Dr with pain relief and the little cap thing they use these days.
Good luck with it all.