I totally agree with your post Kitten Well said. BTW "consequences" don't only mean "bad things" a consequence can also be a good outcome. I VERY much agree with the "not broken, don't fix" philosophy as well. My 5yo son may develop a phimosis problen with his foreskin... but at the moment it's borderline "ok" and responding well to medication. More than happy to take a 'wait and see' approach.