*mod hat on* Firstly I would just like to say that everyone will feel pain differently and what will upset/hurt some wont upset others - so lets end that discussion right there. We cannot comment on the accuracy of that as we do not know if there was anything edited from the vision shown on 60mins at the time.

JoJo, we are in the boat where when we were having our first child we did all the research too - contacted the Family Planning Association and got a heap of info sent out (no google in those days LMAO) and carefully studies all the pros and cons. In the end there wasn't enough conclusive proof that it would be beneficial to have it done, and for him to look like daddy wasn't a good enough reason for us so we didn't do it.

Since then my DH has changed his tune and wishes that we had it done. It's something he still can't come up with a concrete reason as to why, but he has said numerous times in the past that he regrets the decision we made. I still stand by my decision though. We have never had problems with infections and DS cleans it himself in the bath every night.

With this baby we are still not getting it done as I refuse to have one child done and the other not done. They can make their own decision when they are adults and if they want it done then so be it.

At the end of the day all of our posts/advice are anecdotal and in no way can they mirror your own circumstances. All you can do is inform yourself and then make the decision that is right for your family.