Okay well had the doctors visit,

He has a referal to a peadiatric surgeon as my doctor believes he does need to get done to stop the infections but would prefer we use this surgeon as he will be totally anethetised and wont feel a thing...

So on the upside after reading all the horror stories on the net, this sounds like a very humaine way to do things, He said whilst he could be taken to someone who only does circumcision, thats okay but apparently its hard to get done for anything other than medical (our case) or religious reasons apparently "just to be like dad" isnt enough now days and that at least with a pead. surgeon it will be as painfree and infection free as possible.....

so off to the surgeon... Lots of money, thank goodness for PHI. LOL.

thanks everyone for all the info, it was great and certainly put my mind at ease, That and its not the worst thing in the world to have done.

Thanks so much
(lots of reasons to love bellybelly!!!)

Lindie