Kitt3n - I hear ya on the wraps - I made myself a long wrap from cotton voile and it has just been the BEST as my bub goes through phases of wanting to be carried everywhere and my neck can't take it - but the wraps are soooo comfy the way they distribute all over you and she's as happy as larry in there. PS - How do you pronounce Laa? Is it La like the musical note, or Leia like Star Wars or something else - I don't think I've come across a Laa before and I keep meaning on asking whenever I see your sig

Mel - I don't think it's selfish at all as it's obviously important to you, but I am the same and don't think I could go without DH for that long either - hopefully you will find a supportive OB - perhaps your existing OB can give you a referral or recommendation that might make it easier?

I feel like a zombie today. Miss E thought it would be wonderful to wake up at 5 and not go to sleep and after waking at 3, 4 and 6:30 yesterday (mainly to do giant poos, yeah that's just what I feel like spritzing out of nappies at that hour of night ) Anyhoo I am zoned out. Which is sad I know, but I'd just gotten so used to her sleeping through from 7 - 7 my system feels like it's been shocked by a NB again.

WOEB: Soon to be lots of pinches of da naked chubb, just heard her wake