Where are you all shopping if you have never had these problems? Where can you buy nice jeans, shorts or cords with zippers and buttons (not elastic waists) that fit?

I find Pumpkin Patch, Cotton On Kids and every expensive branded item Jude's ever been given as a gift (Fred Bare, Bebe etc) to be very slim fitting and low rise. The problem then is that the waist band sits over the nappy and doesn't come back in at the waist and the pants, therefore, fall off. Tracksuit pants, shorts and leggings with elastic waists are not such a problem.