Well, I was wrong about the icon (I still get the error, but she assures me its not there ) and I still cann't find it! Quietly tearing my hair out! KTL and Tinoki are running me in circles too! Maybe I'm just not cut out for the extremes! lol
If it's an extreme one, sometimes they are hidden. Have you tried tabbing through the page you think it's on to see if any hidden links appear? If there's none, maybe you are on the wrong page.