Thanks for the replies. It is tough and exhausting. I'm just trying to come up with solutions. I have an ergo and have tried the hip carry today. She didn't like at first but got used to it eventually. I think I'm going to have to go with that. It didn't feel that comfortable, especially the strap near my neck.

Thanks for the offer of the ergo Pam, didn't realise that things were so tough for you too I know you don't want to tell me, but I really want to know when did Miss E get better? I'm just trying to be realistic of how long I have to go and how I can get through.

I guess I have to accept that she won't be like a regular kind of baby (whatever that is!) and I have to use a sling full time and listen to her cry when I have to go to the bathroom etc. That's the hardest part.

Cooking on the weekend is an idea. It just flies by so quickly and I'm usually upset. But might try that.