Hi Cheekymonkey
Sorry to hear about your struggles with your DS,it sounds like you are an amazing mother and reaIly trying everything to help him.Its sooo hard when you have a 'non-sleeper' and I think you can only truely understand whats it like when you've been there.I hope your family are more helpful than your DH's

Your post really made me feel for you about the no BF as a tool for soothing.I sometimes feel abit resentful at having to be the one to go to DD and feed her during the night(I'm BFing) while DH is sound to sleep but to be honest I do use it as a 'quick fix'.So a big well done to you

Good luck with the homeopath,hope it helps