ds has been co-sleeping since birth. he doesn't bfeed o/night anymore- but he does wake up and sometimes need a cuddle/spoon/back rub to get back to sleep...

now #2 is coming along...and i would like to co-sleep with him if it suits him...as i find it much easier to bfeed o/night when co-sleeping.

so my dilemma is......what should i do? can they both co-sleep with me? (don't worry about dp, he's more than happy to sleep in the spare room )
do i need to move ds into his own bed (maybe still in my room?) or does he need to be completely away in his own room?

i'd love to hear about your own experiences- i don't mind sleeping with them both and getting woken all night, i'm use to it now but i really want to do what's best for them both iykwim?
thanks