Thanks guys.

Liz - we never co-slept with DS - and only had DD in our bed a couple of times. DS is really good at going to bed now, he'll usually insist on going to bed!!!!! And since we moved him to his new big boy bed, has been coming in in the mornings for a cuddle for about half an hour.. which I love so much - I won't even swap sides of the bed with DH cos they are my cuddles - MINE!!! LOL