OK..I'm praying someone is going to have an answer to this because...if I can't fix it, I'm sure I will leave DH.

Eliza always been a goodish sleeper, she can work herself into a vomiting episode which has always frightened me and I prefer to do the settle and fall asleep peacefully rather than let her scream till she vomits. A few weeks ago this all started due to spending the night away with BIL and SIL we took a portacot and thought we wouldnt have issues but we did and as there house is newly renovated it was easier just to say goodnight to everyone and she fell asleep with me. I love co sleeping always have - DH hates it should I say detests it ( Yes we are chalk and cheese)
Our nightly routine consists of a dinner play maybe a walk on the bike if weather permits then a bath, dressed in her room story and then dare I say a bottle and bed.
The heating is on and its toasty the lights are dim and soft music is playing.
Recently she climbs off the change table after she is dressed and lays on our bed and pretends to snore. If I try to carry her back she screams and flips out completely.
So most nights I have to go to sleep at 7,30 with her if I move she waked up if I try to move her back to her bed she wakes up. If I put her in her bedroom she screams till she vomits. I'm working full time DH is working FT and I dread going home at night knowing what is going to happen.
Daytime sleeps no issues, goes to sleep waves goodnight and blows me a kiss...but the difference between day and night is unbeleviable ...most people cannot believe it as they only see how well she is during the day.
Any ideas
Kicking DH out is the only one I have but I'm sure it will be too expensive
Bec

My first plan is to buy a doona with the "crappiest kiddies design" that she will love and hope that is a step in the right area