Hugs Bec. What a rough trot you are having. GGRRR to your DH!

Have you tried lying down with Eliza in her bed? Would she go for that?

I also like the linen idea. When we moved Jack into a bed (and in a new room too) he picked out his own linen (wiggles and Thomas the Tank Engine) and picked out his own stickers for the walls (Thomas again). This really helped with the transition.

Another thing that helped when Jack moved rooms was to put his toys in the new room and let him play in there for a couple of days first, before he slept in there. Then, by the time we asked him if he wanted to go to sleep in there, he said yes as he was comfortable with the room. We also did his sleep time routine in there for those couple of days too.

Otherwise I guess there is sleep school, but if they do cc, you might find that doesn't suit your parenting style. On the co-sleeping thing, is there anyway DH will change his mind?

I'm not sure what else to suggest but I wish you Good Luck. I hope you don't end up on the couch again.