You're doing a great job hun. Can you push back his bedtime? Dd won't fall asleep before 8:30, basically six hours after she wakes from her nap. So sometimes it's even nine or nine thirty. I don't mind too much because she sleeps two plus hours in the day, and I always rest or nap too. At two she is getting about twelve hours in twenty four of sleep...split ten hours or so at night and two in the day.

When dd rolls around or protests at bedtime too much, I tell her it's bedtime and mummy will leave if she doesn't lie still. This usually works, but I have had to follow through on occasion so she gets the message that I'm not mucking about.

I currently feed dd until drowsy then lie with her. She only lets dh do it if I'm not home...and then he often has to put her down later.

Try not to stress about the new baby. I'm due in march and am expecting chaos, but it'll all work out.