that has actually been my biggest stress factor i think , people telling me what my baby should be doing.... ie having two to three big naps during the day of around three hours, so of course i completely freak out that mine doesnt do that. every baby HAS to be different so how can you pigeon hole them all into doing the exact same things.... its nuts and so unnecessary for a new mum to be bombarded with things the baby should be doing.

that said i am now dead keen to investigate a baby hammock, anyone know how much to hire and where from? (melbourne) she is asleep in her baby swing again (god bless that swing) so am thinking i just may have some luck with a hammock for day time sleeps.