We still do it probably 95% of the time for her day nap, and probably 70% of the time for her nights.

This has only just recently changed from being 100% for all naps (apart from if she fell asleep in the car). I didnt do anything to change it, she just kind of grew into it.

Now at night, sometimes when she is finished feeding, she looks up at me, blows a kiss, points to the cot and says 'night night'... so cute! But then other times she is still fed to sleep.

Don't question the way you are doing things, if it feels right to you, then keep doing it! Don't worry about what anyone else says!