I stopped going to Mothers' Group a few months ago - I found it just made me depressed hearing about the other babies sleeping so well when DS never did.

Today I decided to visit Mothers' Group to catch up. What a mistake! I feel so down now - all the babies are sleeping through (except 1) and most of them ended up just letting bub CIO - "it only took a few days" they all said. I just can't let DS cry like that so I guess my only choice is to wait until he's ready to sleep all night by himself.

ATM DS wakes at about 11pm and 4am and usually goes back to sleep after a feed - this is his best night. On bad nights he can wake for hours at a time but thankfully these nights aren't too often. It does seem like a bit of a habit that he wakes at these two times.

Just wondering what everyone's thoughts are about him eventually skipping these feeds and sleeping all night....will he do it on his own? I'd like to believe he will but being that he's almost 1, I wonder if things will change on their own.