Thanks everyone, somehow I managed to lose this thread.

I didn't realise that the sleep school was controlled crying, defiantely not interested in that!!!!!

Our sleep is still going nowhere fast, but no I'm not willing to try controlled crying and TBH I'm not ready to move her to her own room either. I am trying to pat her back to sleep but most nights it won't work so I don't really know what else to do apart from ride it out.

Thanks everyone xxx