Aww hun! big hugs! Please dont feel guilty as hard as it is not too! You are doing a fabulous job!
I too worry about Myles when i leave him to grizzle a bit, and all i see is the Science of parenting page with the stress level stuff on it lol! I dont think 30 secs of grizzling will do much iykwim! I am sure she is fine!
I think she is self settling but we cosleep too so i have no idea if that is right! Maybe its not guilt but sadness thats she doesnt really need you all that much anymore when going to bed? To me it sounds like you have given her a beautiful safe environment and she is very happy!
Oh, darling, I reckon I'd be the same!
However, she's not screaming the house down for you, she's whimpering - there's a big difference between being sad and being distressed, or even upset.
If the guilt is still harrassing you, crawl into bed with her, and when hunger wakes you up later, bang dinner in the microwave and have a late one
I am going through the exact same thing right at this exact moment! You are not alone.I am sitting here on my laptop right next to the baby monitor, waiting for him to stir again.....just praying that I get to have my dinner soon, I haven't eaten anything since 11am.
I just can't bring myself to let Jack cry and DH is at work so it's just me in and out of the room for the last hour or so.....
Maybe its not guilt but sadness thats she doesnt really need you all that much anymore when going to bed? To me it sounds like you have given her a beautiful safe environment and she is very happy!
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