Yeah... I guess its hard not to assume that people are only giving it a go on the advice of "old school" views about babies "learning" to sleep etc. It doesn't help that mchn's push for controlled crying, and no doubt many gp's, and many of our mothers!

I guess I also can't understand that if someone HAS done research of their own, that they would still opt to use it, so I guess that's where my assumptions that they haven't read all there is to read come in, and I know assuming is a very bad thing! hehe.

Anyway.. it's not so much about me judging anyone, it's more that I'm bubbling forth with what I'm learning and reading about.. and I guess it comes across the wrong way.

Anyway, I feel better.. I'm not stewing anymore! hehe. Felt good to get it out tho, coz I do struggle sometimes with what I read here.