Hi SammyRo

Firstly, that's great that your DD came off the boob before falling asleep! And don't feel bad about her crying - you are NOT a bad mother. You were cuddling her while she cried so she knew you were there to help her through it. Us mothers have an in-built guilt activator don't we!!

I can't offer much advice as my DS wouldn't feed to sleep but thought I'd send some hugs and support your way. We always say it but remember that this too shall pass. Just think how much has changed in the last few weeks and months. And it will be different again in another few months.

If you do think she may be waking because of the sleep association and you want to try something different maybe try to get a hold of The No-Cry Sleep Solution book if you can. It's great if you want a gentle way to help bub fall asleep without the boob (or any other sleep association).

Good luck!