nooooooooo please dont say that!!
this is reallllllly putting DH off letting me have another baby
After moaning about pregnancy & sleep deprivation waaaay too much, a 3rd is off the cards for us - DH can't take it that I can't take it ITMS.. and I think he's serious. So in case yours is like mine, breathe, push through, and moan to us if you need to get it out... remember that this too shall pass. Meanwhile I'd take her to the doc if you think she has an ear infection.

Hang in there, it soooooo sucks, but it *is* temporary. Can you get your oldest minded and catch a nap once or twice a week? My eldest is refusing to go down for a day sleep anymore, so I set him up with the computer (heaps of pre-school online games they can play) or a DVD and catch a few ZzZzZz's with the baby on the couch when I'm really desperate for some shut eye. I feel a hundred times better when I wake up, even if I only get an hour or so.