honey hugs for starters.

For starters...forget everything anyone ever said about it.......negetive, nuetral or positive

What do YOU and your DH want to do? What do you feel is right for the 3 of you?

I understand that there are dangers...but the benefits are rich and rewarding. The bonding for both parents is just precious, the comfort in knowing that she is happy sleeping so close with you. The sleep all 3 of you will get.

Their only babies for such a short time.....make the most of it and remember this time as a lovelt enriching experience between you, instead of misserable, upsetting and tiresome.

Goodluck