Thanks so much Megsmum - i totally agree with you and it is lovely to hear you are co=sleeping with emma too. i also was thinking that it took a lot to get molly so it is really lovely having her close to us.

Molly seems a lot happier today too - almost like she is saying 'hey mum you finally figured out what I want' and what she wants is lots of company and closeness - hey who can fault that!

Thanks for your reply - it has helped so much