I've only just seen this. PM me your address. I will send you my book called Baby Bliss by Jo Ryan. Worked really well. We also have a sound machine in dd's room and I always put it on the heartbeat sound. It is very rhythmic and i even fall asleep to it.

To help stop the feed to sleep association with dd I started to offer water instead of boobie.

Does DS have a dummy?? This also helps DD get to sleep.

I will keep thinking...

In the mean time lots of big for you and sleepy vibes for DS