Im so with you on this, i have been out twice in 19 months, but it doesnt bother me. i meet friends in the day etc and thats easy. Sometimes it can take hours to get DD to sleep so i just tend to find it easier and less stressfull for all if i dont plan to go out at night. I have no idea what im going to do on my wedding day in august.
People judge and shake thier heads and then in the same breath comment on how chilled out and confident she is.....i wish others would see the link between her knowing that im always there for her 100% and her outgoing confident personality.
I wouldnt trust anyone else to put her to sleep (apart from DH, although he never has im sure if he HAD to hed be fine) i dont know anyone else who shares the same ideas as me an i can imagine that the might just give up after half an hour and leave her to cry.....id be devistated!!!!!!!
It is hard but at the end of the day you know your doing the best for your bub and you can walk around with a lovely smug look on your face...who cares if others think your crazy! TBH my opinion on CCing is probably the same as others opinions of my comforted sleeping....someone will always think the other is crazy!!