I rarely go out at night either, I'm like Astrid, it doesn't bother me too much since I only have to do it for such a short amount of time. If I go out, I prefer to go out during the day anyway. My SIL thinks we're crazy, but we make this choice to be gentle parents for us and Jazz, not SIL, so she can think what she wants. It annoys me to have to explain it each time, but i don't let it bother me too much, or make me not want to comfort Jazz to sleep.