Thank you so much for this post kelly. I had quite a terrible night last night and was questioning myself this morning. I follow Hendrix's lead but last night DH was away and he woke 3 times. The first i was able to settle him with a dummy, the next i fed him as he was a bit more distressed but the third time at 5 he was in some pain ( i think from the chilly i had yesterday) and he brought me to tears. He eventually settled an hour later and slept for 3 more hours which enabled me to get some more z's. Anyway i almost fell back into the trap of routine! He was sleeping 12 hours for so many weeks that it is hard not to think that there is a simple solution but from your inspiring last post i have regained the strength and confidence to continue the way i have - with lots of love and cuddles.

P.s i ordered the wonder weeks yesterday.