My hubby won't help out at night shift at all. He flat out refuses, or he says he will but never does. He never has helped. Even after my c-sections when they were newborns I had to get up, change them, feed them, and do all the re-settling on my own. He also flat out refuses to sleep in any bed but his own. We don't have a spare bed of our own and the only available bed is my ds2's single bed which won't fit me, dd and ds2. Neither of the little ones will settle for their father, probably because he has never got up to them. It''s only me and that's why I am at breaking point, I am just exhausted.
Well see, in point of fact, this right here is your problem Sorry to hear that you are not being well supported at home. Any other family or friends that could help - even to get a nap during the day?