I hear ya!!

My dad used to constantly ask if my DD was sleeping thru yet... I just used to sigh and say "nup!"

And don't get me started on the good/bad baby thing!!! Apparently DS is a "good" baby because he sleeps well (ATM anyway). Does that mean DD, who is a delightful child, albeit a handful, was a bad baby because I had to rock her to sleep for every sleep til she was 6mths, at which point she began to self settle - every now and then! And don't get ME started on night wake ups!

Babies need what they need. They wake when they wake. That doesn't make then good or bad IMO!!

You do whatever works for you!