Gracie: What eva works 4 u!!! I had the foolish IL's tell me that having Bella's basentte in my room 4 the 3 months i had it would make her 2 reliant on me, ppl say a lot of this bull **** 2 mummy's like ourselves. What they dont understand is that non of this is going 2 matter say when they're 10yrs old or so. This is ur baby and all these other mums at ur mums club no doubt have problems of there own that u dont have. So next time walk in with ur head held high, coz ur doing whats right 4 u. Look i cuddle Bella all the time and at the moment she's teething and wants 2 sleep with me, so i let her. But most of the time when she's not teething she wants 2 b in her own bed, this is coz she's older and getting her own personality and trust me lil miss knows what she wants! So, there u go Bella slept with me most of her new born stage and sometimes even now and those fools who said "You're crazey, ur doing the wronge thing." Now can eat there words.
Do whats right 4 u and ur baby everyone is different and as ur bubs grows he'll make his own routine and let u know what he wants and the best thing is u'll have a cuddley boy!