Hey honey

We fed (and still feed) Kelts to sleep otherwise she is a shocker (hence the 2 hours to go to sleep jazz that we go through if she doesn't fall asleep on her bottle!) but that is only of the night time. When she was still having day bottles, I could always get her to have a second nap by - yup - falling asleep whilst feeding. It was my only tried and true method there for a while (and I don't think it made a difference being bottle fed, if I wanted her to take a nap I'd just make a small bottle )

She is the same, if she is in our bed and we lie down with her, its time to par-tay....

So we usually do the old "pat on the back" stuff until she is asleep - either that or we stroke her eyebrow (which makes her eyes close) and then we give her a little head massage to send her off to sleep. Most of the time this works, but its not as quick as feeding to sleep.

Eventually he will self settle (yes he might be 3 when it happens) but it will happen. Aricyn doesn't need any help going to sleep (still needs us sitting next to him, but we don't actually DO anything) so there's some hope for ya