Thanks again everyone.

Lady Zaidie... No you don't sound mean at all, it is what I want/ need to hear! I don't really have any expectations of DD sleeping all night but everybody else seems to! Have had a good chat with DH who is very good really and he said anything I can do just tell me, so he is helping in the night and I get some sleepins too when I can. He looked up controlled crying on the internet and has decided that it is not right for us. (something which I had already decided but it is great to be on the same page)



Oh and I will see if my library has any of those books.