I personally wouldn't wake her.I went through this with Gemma and still do and Gemma is nearly 4 months and we don't have a set routine.She's demand fed and I just look for tired signs as to when she wants to nap. Gemma sometimes will have a nap before bedtime and I just figure she needs that little bit extra today.I may just put her to bed a bit later, until she's actually tired and then I know she'll sleep soundly for the night.I know this doesn't work for all babies.

Are you wanting to get into a routine?Or you just want to go by Coco's ques that she gives you?My sister has had her 11 month old in a routine and it works for her, but I prefer Gemma leading the way.

It really is up to you.Your so not alone though, like I said I still worry that she may be napping to much and won't sleep.But if she wakes during the night then she wakes, I just think how many other thousands of women are up pacing the floors with their babies right now, and it helps me through the night time wake ups!