My 2 year old DD has always been a gem at sleeping, all we had to do was take her to bed say night night turn out the light and she would self settle within minutes.
Since DS arrived and dare I say day light savings, we are having huge issues getting her to sleep. Sometimes it will take an hour or more of constant getting out of bed and me taking her back before she will settle. Often it results in me getting mad at her, yelling or putting the lock on the door so she cant get out.

I hate myself for doing this, but when I have 2 to settle now I dont know what else to do. DS is very sensitive and I am rocking him to sleep most nights, I cant do it with her as well.

What can I do to have a tear fear bedtime? For both her and me, DP reckons she just isn't tired but what do I do let her decide when she wants to go to bed and still have her awake at 6am?

PLease help.