dd is between us and I turn my pillow around and lie half on it on my tummy. It's how I like to sleep and then dd has lots more room. She still moves a lot and likes to bury her face in the pillows sometimes, but she is old enough to move and mothers intuition always wakes me through the night to check on her. I used to use a side car arrangement, but she outgrew the little cosleeper and the cot is literally enormous (it's on loan from a friend). Two blankets is a good idea. Dh and I dress warmly on top and keep the doona low. Hth