angel, oscar only ever sleeps in the sling or in bed with me. i think it's great. oscar sleeps really well 2-3 times a day in the sling for about 2 hours each time. he is used to noise, kids etc so doesn't wake up. i think you are great meeting kynan's needs - it would be scary for them to be on their own i think. be secure in what you're doing. i brought my other two up like this and they are very well balanced confident kids

love beckles