Absolutely Fi - and I'll keep it in mind that's for sure (it definitely caught my eye as a nifty gadget when I saw it in the catalogue!)

I've thought about using a star chart so he gets a treat or something special for having a good sleep but I mean how on earth do I really explain that to him in a way that will make sense......I mean, if he's frightened or needing comfort then star charts won't really cut the mustard will they......

I just wish I could pinpoint what was going on.....

Oh and Beck, yep I've tried a soothing toy that plays lights/music etc but he ends up getting crapped off with it LOL!!