Firstly, take a deep breath and take time to congratulate yourself on the AWESOME job you are doing!

Secondly I want you to know you are not alone, it sounds like your DS and my DD are twins!

We have tried just about everything you have suggested and haven't had a lot of success, our GP even suggested sedating her.

However I wanted to let you know there is light at the end of the tunnel. Ari now sleeps from 7:30pm until 2am and then from 2am -5am. She wakes quite often for the last couple of hours until she is ready to get out of bed at 8am.

What we found worked was
- we put her in a toddler bed which allows me to lie down and feed her to sleep in her own bed, this means when she wakes she isn't in a different place. She now wakes in the early part of the night but resettles herself!
- she does get a bottle occassionaly but this doesn't mean you have to give up BF! Some days hubby gives her a bottle before bed, othertimes I BF her, if she is feeding constantly through the night and I have changed nappy etc I will try a bottle, she times she wants it othertimes she spits it out and wants the breast again
- we co-sleep from 2am so I can sleep
-we have been more strict with her getting her daytime sleep, even though we struggle with this due to our family circumstances
- oh and we try and make sure she has lots of solids at night
- I have been using the Elizabeth Pantly suggestions esp the PPO method.

That's all I can think of it but some of it I think has to do with her just getting older. Just remember when you are up that there is someone else up too