mbear - Yeah.. DH and I were saying that when Tallon is older and has a bit more understanding of what's going on.. then maybe picking him up EACH time might not be the way to go, but he'll then be able to understand comfort in other ways. For now, we're just going with it.
Ivana - I think you are doing great. You worked out what Tallon's problem was didn't you? Everyone makes different choices and what will work for one won't for another. But I don't think you should have to defend yourself for the choices you make. Sure, the little darlings will eventually figue out what they have to do to get a cuddle, but at his age it is hardly going to ruin him for life to give him a little cuddle.
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